You just have to be clear on what you want. By being clear I don’t just mean you know what you want in your head. You must know what you want and that it is your deepest desire and for the good of all concerned that you manifest that desire. Then you just focus on that desire and how it would really feel to have it and stop focusing on the opposite. Then comes the fun part. You let it go. You let go of any concern or doubt or hesitation about your desires coming to pass. This means you also let go of the how and when it will happen as well. An easy way to do this is to truly believe that what you desire is already here. Because in fact, it is. It’s like being pregnant. You may not know or see that there is a baby in the womb, but once conception has occurred, barring anything that would interrupt the natural process, a baby will be born. That is how it is with our desires. Once the thought has been created you can’t uncreate it. You can create opposing thoughts that will neutralize or delay the original thought but if allowed, it will come to fruition.

The best way to allow your desires to come to pass is to just feel good. By feeling good I mean make it a practice to always do your best to find something to feel good about. Now we all have bad feelings or things that we focus on that make us upset or worried or angry or any number of other negative emotions. These emotions tell us that we are out of alignment with our desires and that we are bringing the opposite of what we want to manifest. As soon as we notice that we are having negative emotions, we just need to turn our attention to anything else that will make us feel better. Even if it is just that we are no longer feeling bad is enough. If you can refocus your attention to a thought that is inspiring or happy or playful or grateful then you are back on track and can feel good again. Now you are again attracting what you desire to come into your life.

Remember feeling bad (i.e. guilty, angry, depressed, overwhelmed, etc.) just brings more things into our lives that make us feel that way. Feeling good (joyful, excited, relaxed, and appreciative) brings more of those kinds of things into our lives as well. It is not what happens to us that controls how we feel. It is how we think and what we focus on that produces emotions in us. Even in the worst situation you can look for and find something that can make you feel better or even good. Feeling good is the key to manifesting all good things in your life.

The law of attraction is based on the law of vibration which states that everything in the universe is energy and that everything is in a constant state of motion or vibration.  The law of attraction states that like attracts like, so things that vibrate at a harmonic frequency are attracted to each other.  If you have thoughts of joy and peace then you will be vibrating at a higher frequency and joyful and peaceful things will become attracted to you.

When you control your thoughts you control your vibration and can manifest the things you desire by matching the vibration.  You do this in primarily two ways.  The first way is to focus on your desires.  You can set an intention to have a desired result or thing come into your life.  When you focus on what you want you start to become in tune or harmony with it.  The second way is to maintain an expectation that you will receive what you have asked for, in fact, it is already yours and is on its way to you.  This keeps you in that vibration or frequency and manifestation is assured.

You can focus on your desire and then simply release it.  The choice is up to you.  Your thoughts and emotions will bring about the result.  Have you ever been at a fine restaurant and ordered a meal and then became engrossed in a conversation with your dining partner? Remember how quickly the meal seemed to be served?  Have you ever ordered dessert and anticipated its arrival?  Did you ever focus on how tasty the crème brulee would be or how decadent the chocolate cake would taste?  Did you enjoy that experience as well?  You probably didn’t worry that they wouldn’t have what you ordered or bother the waiter to make sure they got your order right, you just enjoyed yourself.  That’s the way manifesting should be.  You decide what type of food you want to eat (set your intention), you go to a restaurant that serves what you want (get in harmony with your desire), you tell the waiter what you want (focus on your desire) and then let the chef prepare your meal (go about enjoying your life).

The key to the law of attraction and manifestation is to stay in the vibration of your desire by focusing your thoughts in a positive way and with emotion.  If you have doubts or thoughts that your desire is delayed in manifesting, you can slow or stop the process.   The quickest way to your manifestation is to focus on your desire and then enjoy yourself.